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Self-Representing in

Family Court

Thousands of people represent themselves in family court every year. With proper preparation and support, it is entirely manageable.

Self-representation in family court, sometimes described as acting as a litigant in person, is far more common than most people realise. Since legal aid was largely withdrawn for family matters in 2013, a significant proportion of people going through divorce, financial remedy proceedings and child arrangements disputes navigate the process without a solicitor.

The family court system is not designed to be inaccessible. Judges are familiar with self-representing parties and the process does allow for it. What makes the difference is being properly prepared, properly organised and having someone experienced alongside you.

What self-representation involves

When you represent yourself in family court, you are responsible for completing and filing your own documents, meeting court deadlines, preparing your own position statements and presenting your case clearly to the judge. You can bring a McKenzie Friend to hearings for support, but they cannot speak on your behalf unless the judge grants specific permission.

Where people struggle

The most common difficulties for self-representing parties are not strategic, they are practical. Missing a filing deadline. Completing Form E incorrectly. Not knowing what a position statement should contain or how long it should be. Arriving at a hearing without the right documents. These are avoidable with the right preparation and support.

How I can help

  • Explaining the process clearly so you know what is coming at each stage
  • Helping you complete court forms correctly, including Form E, C100 and position statements
  • Reviewing documents and correspondence before you submit or send them
  • Helping you prepare for what will actually happen at each hearing
  • Attending hearings with you as your McKenzie Friend
  • Helping you stay calm, organised and focused throughout
  • Debriefing after hearings and planning the next steps

A fair outcome without a solicitor's bill

Self-representation, done properly and with good support, can lead to outcomes just as fair as those achieved with full legal representation. The key is preparation, organisation and knowing what you are doing at each stage. That is exactly what I help with.

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