Representing yourself in family court, sometimes called being a self-representing party (litigant in person), is increasingly common. Legal aid is no longer available for most family law matters, and solicitor costs are out of reach for many people. While having legal representation is always advantageous, it is entirely possible to navigate the court process without one.
Know the process
The most important thing you can do is understand the process before you are in it. Know what type of hearing you are attending, what its purpose is, what documents you need to file and by when.
Paperwork
Court paperwork is one of the biggest challenges for self-representing parties (litigants in person). Documents must be filed in the right format, by the right deadline, with the correct number of copies. Missing a filing deadline can have serious consequences for your case.
In the courtroom
When you speak, address the judge as "Sir" or "Ma'am". Stand when the judge enters. Be concise, judges appreciate clarity. Stick to the issues relevant to that hearing.
Your right to a McKenzie Friend
You have the right to be accompanied by a McKenzie Friend at most family court hearings. A McKenzie Friend can sit beside you, take notes, quietly advise and provide support. This can make an enormous difference, particularly at more complex or stressful hearings.