How to Represent Yourself

Representing yourself in family court, sometimes called being a self-representing party (litigant in person), is increasingly common. Legal aid is no longer available for most family law matters, and solicitor costs are out of reach for many people. While having legal representation is always advantageous, it is entirely possible to navigate the court process without one.

Know the process

The most important thing you can do is understand the process before you are in it. Know what type of hearing you are attending, what its purpose is, what documents you need to file and by when.

Paperwork

Court paperwork is one of the biggest challenges for self-representing parties (litigants in person). Documents must be filed in the right format, by the right deadline, with the correct number of copies. Missing a filing deadline can have serious consequences for your case.

In the courtroom

When you speak, address the judge as "Sir" or "Ma'am". Stand when the judge enters. Be concise, judges appreciate clarity. Stick to the issues relevant to that hearing.

Your right to a McKenzie Friend

You have the right to be accompanied by a McKenzie Friend at most family court hearings. A McKenzie Friend can sit beside you, take notes, quietly advise and provide support. This can make an enormous difference, particularly at more complex or stressful hearings.

How to manage your case effectively as a litigant in person

Stay organised

Keep a dedicated folder for your case with all court documents, correspondence, and notes filed chronologically. Know what is in your bundle. Judges appreciate litigants in person who can find documents quickly.

Know the basics

The Family Procedure Rules (FPR) govern family court proceedings. Familiarity with the basics, including filing deadlines and the format of court documents, will prevent costly mistakes. The gov.uk website and the Personal Support Unit at court are both useful resources.

Be clear and focused in court

When speaking in court, be calm, clear, and focused on the issues the judge needs to decide. Do not use court time to vent or recount the full history of the relationship. Judges are experienced at managing hearings efficiently and will redirect you if you go off track.