Resource · Emotional Wellbeing

Rebuilding Your Finances

After Separation

Practical steps for stabilising and rebuilding your financial life.

Separation almost always has a significant financial impact. Two people who were sharing costs now need to maintain two separate households on the same income. Building a clear picture of your new financial position, and taking practical steps to stabilise it, is one of of the most important things you can do.

Start with a budget

Create a realistic budget for your new circumstances. What are your essential monthly outgoings, housing, utilities, food, transport, childcare? What is your income? Where is there a gap, and what are your options for addressing it?

Check what benefits you are entitled to

Many people going through separation are entitled to benefits they are not claiming. These might include:

  • Universal Credit
  • Child Benefit and Child Tax Credit
  • Council Tax Reduction
  • Housing Benefit
  • Working Tax Credit

Use a benefits calculator, such as entitledto.co.uk or Turn2Us, to check what you may be entitled to.

Update your accounts and direct debits

Close joint accounts or remove the other party's access. Update direct debits and standing orders. Make sure your salary is paid into an account only you control.

Seek advice if you are struggling

If you are in financial difficulty, seek advice early. Citizens Advice, StepChange and National Debtline all offer free, confidential support.

Frequently asked questions

Am I responsible for my ex's debts?
For joint debts, those in both names, yes, both parties remain liable until the debt is paid off or restructured. For debts solely in your ex's name, you are not personally liable, but joint assets may be affected.
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