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McKenzie Friend Support in Essex —

Do You Need One?

Understanding what a McKenzie Friend does and how to find one in Essex.

More people than ever are going through family court without legal representation. Legal aid is no longer available for most family matters, and solicitor costs are simply out of reach for many families. A McKenzie Friend can provide court support at a fraction of the cost.

What is a McKenzie Friend?

A McKenzie Friend is a non-legal supporter who can accompany you to most family court hearings. They can sit beside you, take notes, help you find documents and provide quiet support and guidance during the hearing. They cannot speak on your behalf unless the judge grants specific permission.

When do you need a McKenzie Friend?

A McKenzie Friend is most useful when you are attending court without a solicitor, particularly at more significant hearings such as FDR hearings, contested hearings or Final Hearings. Even if you have a solicitor, a McKenzie Friend can provide emotional support and help you process what is happening.

McKenzie Friend support in Essex

The Separation Companion provides McKenzie Friend support for family court hearings across Essex, including Chelmsford, Southend, Colchester and surrounding areas. Online support is available for remote hearings.

Support is provided by someone who has personally navigated the full family court process, including financial remedy hearings, and who understands not just the practical but the emotional reality of being in court.

What a McKenzie Friend does

A McKenzie Friend is a person who assists a litigant in person (someone representing themselves) in family court proceedings. The role was established in the 1970 case of McKenzie v McKenzie and has since become a well-recognised form of support in the English family courts.

A McKenzie Friend can sit beside you in court, take notes, quietly give advice, and help you follow the proceedings. They cannot speak on your behalf unless specifically given permission by the judge (known as a right of audience), but their presence and support can make an enormous difference to your experience and your ability to present your case effectively.

Why people use a McKenzie Friend in Essex

Family court proceedings in Essex — whether at Chelmsford, Colchester, Southend, or Basildon — can be complex, intimidating, and expensive. Solicitor costs for contested family proceedings regularly run to tens of thousands of pounds. For many people, particularly those dealing with financial remedy proceedings or child arrangements disputes, instructing a solicitor for the full case is simply not financially viable.

A McKenzie Friend provides a middle ground: professional, knowledgeable support at a fraction of the cost of full legal representation. You remain in control of your case, but you are not alone in the courtroom.

What to look for in a McKenzie Friend

McKenzie Friends are not regulated in the same way as solicitors, so it is important to choose carefully. Look for:

  • Experience with the specific type of proceedings you are facing — financial remedy, child arrangements, or both
  • Clear DBS checking — particularly important if your case involves children
  • Professional indemnity insurance
  • Transparency about fees and what is included
  • Someone you feel comfortable with and who communicates clearly

The Separation Companion holds an enhanced DBS check for both child and adult workforces with barred list check, professional indemnity insurance, and is ICO registered. Katherine Waterhouse has safeguarding training to Level 4 and is a qualified Mental Health First Aider.

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Frequently asked questions

What is a McKenzie Friend?
A McKenzie Friend is a person who assists someone who is representing themselves in court. They can sit beside you, take notes, quietly offer advice and guidance, and help you follow the proceedings. They cannot speak on your behalf unless the judge grants a right of audience. The role is recognised in the family courts across England and Wales.
Is a McKenzie Friend legal in Essex family courts?
Yes. McKenzie Friends are recognised across all family courts in England and Wales, including those in Essex (Chelmsford, Colchester, Southend, Basildon, and elsewhere). The court may ask to be informed that you have a McKenzie Friend and may ask them to introduce themselves, but their attendance is a right for litigants in person.
How much does a McKenzie Friend cost?
McKenzie Friend fees vary depending on the provider and the complexity of the case. They are significantly lower than solicitor costs. For a guide to current fees for Separation Companion McKenzie Friend support, see the pricing page.
Can a McKenzie Friend speak in court for me?
Not automatically. A McKenzie Friend can speak on your behalf only if the judge grants a right of audience, which is discretionary. In practice, most McKenzie Friends support you to speak for yourself while providing guidance, note-taking, and quiet assistance throughout the hearing.
Do I still need a solicitor if I have a McKenzie Friend?
Not necessarily, though it depends on the complexity of your case. A McKenzie Friend is most effective for litigants in person who are capable of managing their own case with support. In very complex cases — particularly those involving serious allegations, international elements, or very significant financial assets — a solicitor may also be needed, at least for advice if not for representation.
What types of family court proceedings can a McKenzie Friend help with?
McKenzie Friends can assist with child arrangements proceedings, financial remedy proceedings, divorce applications, enforcement proceedings, and other family court matters. The Separation Companion has specific experience with financial remedy proceedings and child arrangements cases in Essex.
How do I find a McKenzie Friend in Essex?
The Separation Companion provides McKenzie Friend support across Essex and Suffolk. Book a free 20-minute support call to discuss your situation and how support might help.

Credentials & professional standards

Enhanced DBS checkedChild & adult workforces, barred list check
Safeguarding Level 4Highest non-statutory level
Mental Health First AiderNationally recognised qualification
Professionally insuredFull professional indemnity
ICO registeredUK GDPR compliant
McKenzie Friend practitionerPractising court support specialist
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