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How to Change Your Name

After Divorce

A practical step-by-step guide to reverting to your maiden name.

After divorce, many people choose to revert to their maiden name or a previous surname. The process is straightforward but involves updating a surprising number of documents and accounts.

What you need

You can use your decree absolute (final divorce order) as proof of your name change when reverting to your maiden name. You do not need a deed poll for this, your divorce certificate and your birth certificate together are sufficient for most purposes.

If you wish to change to a completely different name (not your maiden name), you will need a deed poll.

What to update

  • Passport, apply for a new passport using your decree absolute
  • Driving licence, notify the DVLA
  • Bank accounts, notify each bank directly
  • HMRC, update your name with HMRC and any pension providers
  • Electoral register, notify your local council
  • GP and healthcare providers
  • Employer and pension provider
  • Mortgage or tenancy agreement
  • Utilities and household accounts
  • Social media and email accounts

Children's surnames

You cannot change your children's surnames without the consent of everyone with parental responsibility, or a court order. This is a separate process from changing your own name.

Changing your name formally

In England and Wales, you do not need a deed poll to change your name. Your divorce certificate is sufficient evidence to update most records if you are reverting to a previous surname. For a completely new name, a deed poll makes the process simpler. An enrolled deed poll is recorded at the Royal Courts of Justice. An unenrolled deed poll is equally legally valid for most practical purposes.

What to update and in what order

Start with your passport and driving licence as these are often required as ID to update other records:

  • Passport and driving licence (DVLA)
  • Bank accounts and financial institutions
  • Employer and pension providers
  • HMRC and National Insurance records
  • Electoral register, GP, dentist, and medical records
  • Utility companies and subscription services

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Frequently asked questions

Do I have to change my name after divorce?
No. You have complete freedom to keep your married name, revert to your maiden name, or take any other name. There is no legal requirement to change your name after divorce.
How do I change my name after divorce?
If you are reverting to a previous surname, your final divorce order is usually sufficient to update most records. For a completely new name, you will need a deed poll. Start with your passport and driving licence.
Do I need a deed poll to change my name after divorce?
Not necessarily if you are reverting to a name you used before marriage. For any other name change, a deed poll makes the process simpler and is accepted by all organisations.
How do I change my children's surname after divorce?
Changing a child's surname requires either the agreement of everyone with parental responsibility or a court order. You cannot simply start using a different surname for your child without the other parent's agreement.
How much does it cost to change my name?
Unenrolled deed polls can be obtained for a relatively small fee or drafted yourself. Updating your passport and driving licence involves standard renewal fees. Most organisations update their records free of charge.
Can I change my name if I am still married?
Yes. You can change your name at any time using a deed poll, regardless of your marital status.
What is a double-barrelled name and can I take one after divorce?
A double-barrelled name combines two surnames with a hyphen. You can take one at any time using a deed poll. This is sometimes chosen by people who wish to retain a connection to their married name while also reverting to a previous name.

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